Delirium wrote:
Vicki Rosenzweig wrote:
What I think you're actually saying is that
you *refer to* people whose
gender
you don't know as "he". This has never been entirely standard, and will
annoy
quite a few people at this epoch. Using full names, "they", and
workarounds
like "that person", is probably a better idea.
Many people also dislike "they", because it's using plural forms (both the
plural pronoun, and to be consistent, plural verbs) to refer to a single
person. Those people seem to be losing that particular battle though.
well "you" is singular and plural. So why not another pronoun?
As of late I've noticed in much academic writing a preferred solution has
been to simply use "she". It's not really any better than using
"he" as
far as correctness goes, but people are less likely to complain about it
being sexist,
well the trick with using "she" is to use "she" AND "he"
approximately
equally. Just pick one at random!
I do find it somewhat jarring when I read it
though, as I'm used to "she"
being used to refer to people who are actually female, so it takes me a
minute to realize from context that it's being used as a generic pronoun.
now you know how female readers feel.... ;-)
Personally, where workable I use s/he. In articles, I use the gender used in
primary documents if there is a primary document, and the gender of the
office-holder when talking specifically. On when writing about the President
of Ireland, as the Irish contitution uses 'he' I use it when talking
theoretically about the office, she/her etc when writing in practice about
the office as the current president is female. And a small note or footnote
to explain usage so no-one reads any gender agenda between using either form
and to avoid confusion. I have found in writing newspaper articles books etc
that it works well once people know why things are in that form.
JT
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