Forgetting and forgiving is hard when everyone still feels that /they/
are the wronged person. So I'll suggest a simple course of action for RK
and EoT, since they seem to be the main protagonists.
1. Each writes ONE message to the wiki list explaining:
a. Why they are behaving as they are:
b. Why they perceive the need to act as they have.
c. What regrets if any they have for their behaviour.
I am fed up with this mailing list churning out all this yelling.
I no longer know who did what, who said what, and who is to blame.